Dear Whoever You Are, I forget your name, we signed those documents a while ago now, what is it, three years?
I still dream about the lake house. Maybe once a month or so. It happens a lot. You’re often there, or some shadow of you. I have to sneak in, sneak around and look at the changes you’ve made, look at the things you’ve kept the same. In my dreams, it isn’t my house any more, but I still dream about it.
We sold another house, just after we sold you the lake house. This was the first house my wife and I bought together, an A-frame type deal set on the side of a steep canyon. We solidified our marriage there, we put down roots in this strange part of the world. She birthed my two sons in that house, under the sloping walls. Knotty pine. Cement floors that we put in. A hot deck. A red and white A-frame nestled up between oak and pine.
We lived there for eight years. I haven’t had one dream about the place since we left.
But the lake house, the house that my grandparents built, the house you now own and take care of – I visit there often. I can’t stop. I try. I don’t want to go anymore. But I’m taken there. The lake is sometimes too high, it’s threatening the house. Sometimes I break in and make myself at home, I don’t care if I’m found out. Sometimes you’re there and I dodge you just in time. I’ve never been caught.
Oh shit. I just realized. I’m the newest ghost in that house. That haunted, haunted house we sold you. I know you know. One of you mentioned it to my mom when you so kindly came down to bring some of the many things we left there.
(How could we take it all? We tried, but we couldn’t even get rid of it all. Jesus, but we tried. We filled dumpsters. We hauled and hauled, but they left so much. My grandparents had so much stuff there. Their parents had stuff there. My parents had stuff there, and so did we. It was the family tomb, and then yours to deal with, and I’m sorry for that.)
But you knew, when you came down to bring a box of such stuff to my mom, so kindly. You knew. You said, “That middle room? What’s the deal with that.” And my mom told you. Stay out of that room.
I made my peace with whatever moves up there, and I hope you have as well. I wasn’t troubled by that room too much (though I never slept in it). But there have been many nightmares come out of that room.
And that middle room or not, you must know by now that every piece of wood in that wooden house is ringing with things in the past. Every corner, every inch of that house is deeply haunted.
Like I said, when I lived there, I knew it and made my piece with it, and I sincerely hope that you can too. I don’t say any of these things to spook you or to be cruel. I’m sincerely grateful you’ve taken the house. From what my mom says you’ve taken incredible care of it, you’ve preserved much of the magic, the things we all loved about it. There were thoughts when we were selling the place that someone would just push it down and start again, but you didn’t. You saw the magic in it and you decided to keep it alive. It means more to me that you can know.
And I’m writing to tell you that I’m sorry. I’m one of the ghosts in the house. And I hope I don’t bother you much. But yes, that’s me in the shadows, in the darting refections off the glass. I’m checking it out. I haven’t left.
I tell you this tonight because I broke one of the few remaining glasses I have from that house. We left a lot of them up there. A lot. With my grandfather being in the restaurant and bar supply business, they had a lot of glassware on hand. We left a lot of it up there. I can still feel the weight of them in my hands, that one tumbler with the gold medallion set into it? I loved that one.
Remaining I have one beer glass, one wine glass, two brandy snifters, and now one tumbler. I broke the match for this one from the Hoffman House – Madison | Rockford | Wisconsin Dells.
I know that each of these glasses is doomed to break. That’s the nature of a glass, any glass, all glasses. In its making comes the guarantee that it will break. I know this, I accept this. But I can’t help but feeling like I made a terrible mistake leaving all that glassware up there. Why didn’t I just ship it? Would it be another hundred bucks? Two hundred? What was I thinking?
And so I ask you, as the human form of one of the ghosts you see in your periphery up there – if you send me any and all glassware of my grandparents that remains up there, I’ll pay the shipping and handling and be forever in your debt. And maybe, just maybe, I’ll stop dreaming of the place and leave you and your family in peace.
Sincerely yours.